hink of everyone you know. Your friends, family, co-workers, and even the occasional hitchhiker are all people you choose as passengers. They're either good backseat drivers or unfortunately, bad ones.
As a driver you can choose who you allow in your car, and as a passenger you can choose how to react to your driver. Follow these tips and you'll not only avoid injuries, but expensive repairs and an insurance increase.
1. When in doubt: Say Something!
Though it seems the driver sees a potential threat, he or she may not. When you see a car breaking in front or a rogue driver merging, be sure to tell the driver. Be calm and concise with your warning. A verbal warning like "Watch out", "Car ahead", or a simple "Hey!" will get the driver's attention and could prevent an accident.
2. When the driver is tired: Wake them up!
Falling asleep at the wheel is one of the most common reasons for automobile accidents. If you're riding with someone who's low on sleep, play some music! Turn the radio to a station or song the driver knows and can sing along with. At the very least, something your driver can mumble incorrect lyrics or hum to. Avoid music that could lull them to sleep. Roll the passenger window down and, when possible, engage the driver in conversation. Keeping a driver in the moment and focused on the road is the key to safely reaching your destination.
3. Don't bother the driver.
The first two suggestions may make a reader believe that it's important to always let their driver know how they're doing. This is not the case. Let the person who's driving simply drive. Remember that you are the passenger and act accordingly. If your friend or driver wants to listen to a radio station or song you don't like, you can only do one thing: get over it! The best way to ensure you and your driver's safety is to let the driver be comfortable and at ease.
4. Do NOT engage the driver in elaborate stories or debates.
A long story with many details can easily distract a driver. Imagine reading a book. While reading, many people become completely consumed by their imaginations and immersed in the book's descriptive nature. Most people forget their reality entirely. This can also happen when a backseat driver tells their driver a long and involved story. Whether it's about your day, your girlfriend, or your disdain for organized government, you can easily distract the driver. This endangers your lives and the lives of those around you. No one wants to be in a devastating car accident over a political or religious argument.
Bottom line: Let the driver be the driver. Your job is to be a passenger. Benevolent backseat driving includes staying aware, knowing your driver, and recognizing their signs of sleepiness. Avoid unnecessary distractions and you'll avoid injury. And if you prevent an accident you'll hear the words, "Wow. thanks, dude."
